Should I or should I not tell the truth to my jaabless 29 year old NEET friend that I got a sarkari jaab and left my old private jaab?
It has been about 2 months since I joined this sarkari daftar and my friend still thinks I'm in my old private jaab. We talk quite frequently but I have concealed my new jaab from him because I believe that the news will not be well received by him since I did not tell him about the egjam becaue I did not want to increase my cumpeeteeshun. He's jaabless. He had nothing else to do. He could have prepared for the jaab by studying 12 hours a day. Much better than me who was doing 9-7 majdoori 6 days a week while studying at the same time. Which is why I did not tell him about the said egjam. Yeah, I know. Immoral and evil, but I had no other choice. I did not want to increase my cumpeeteeshun.
He's jaabless since graduation (last 8 years) but has worked on and off in some BPOs for about 8-9 months and that's the only experience he has. Meanwhile I joined a company right after graduating because of gawreeb parents. I somehow cleared an egjam and now I have a sarkari jaab.
Nowadays, my friend keeps asking me for referrals in my company and I keep telling me I would try talking to the HR. Truth is, I burned all bridges when I left that shithole. Didn't even complete my notice period because the sarkari jaab gave me a very short joining date after completion of all the formalities, medical lauda-lassan and shit and I did not want to miss the opportunity. Now, since the last two months he keeps asking me if I have talked to the HR in my company because he's desperate for a jaab but I left the place with heated gaali-galoch with the HR, my manager and the other higher ups because they were not willing to waive off my notice period.
Now I don't know how to break this news to my friendo.
Kya kiya jaaye yaaron? Badi duvidha me hoon. If I tell him about the sarkari jaab he would ask him why I did not tell him about the egjam and would get seriously mad at me.
>>90717
He is my friend, yes, but that does not mean I would willingly shoot myself in the foot and sabotage my own chance of getting a jaab. This is pajeetdia where hundreds fight for 1 seat. I did not want to raise that number yar.
>>90716
I am not sure how to break the news to him
>>90732
Its a State govt department cant disclose its name for privacy.
I am not sure about how they treat long term neets since I was already in a jaab and they were more interested in knowing about my old work profile and why im leaving my old jaab. But seeing their reaction, I am of the opinion that they think NEETs are the norm and working people are an exception in sarkari jaabs since they praised me for not just getting stuck in endless jaabless gobarmint egjam prepration loop like the other candidates and actually having a jaab, so you'd be fine yar.
Good luck.
