It is all about money and social status.
Just few years ago, some Jat in Gurgaon killed his daughter for doing love marriage with some baman, all of them were lower middle class rural dehatis.
But notice how everything just works if everyone involved is from rich, from a similar social circle.
>>47636
then you havent seen brutality of delhi
the rich punjabis (khatri), baniyas , brahmins , gurjars , jaats all intermarry each other if they are rich