The dating market is completely fucked up after market for slow learners like me.
All I deduced in school and college is that be at par with peer , have a hobby , do your own thing and then talk with girls. Thats all you needed.
Damn my stupid ass tried that same thing after getting a job. People think I'm cool. but I get zero pussy. It a horrible rat race out there. Men will out bid you on spending money , time etc for a women. People are going in debt for to get house and cars to sub consciously attract women.
Its not a bad thing. This is our purpose in Earth. To have sex.
But damn for an autist like me it was a slap on the face. A wake up call.
Things are so easy if you are ready to clear out your bank balance (or if you are rich so it not clearing out).
Wow