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As I grew up, it just became harder to make friends. I've had a good relationship with my childhood friends but now they've got their own life and own new set of friends wherever their paths went. While I remained back with the same old set of friends. I sure am an introvert but it's not like I don't want any friends. In fact, I'd rather be an extrovert seeing how happy they all are. Even if the extroverts aren't that close to their friends, they still have someone to share their feelings with. Sometimes, when I'm free I just feel lonely and wish I'd made more friends just so that I would get called for weekend plans. But now I just sit there at one place whole day, among rhe 4 walls, deciding what to even do apart from work or study. Yesterday I realised I can't even do anything apart from that because I don't have anyone to talk to, except some of my old friends but I want to make more and new ones. It's not like I don't want to hang out with my old friends but they got their own friends now and I just feel pathetic calling them.
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>>1591 >no social life. >no weekend breaks. nowhere to go. just no plans. I think i am retarded but i just want this kind of life, its more peaceful, just doing my work and coming back home and live alone
How do I stop being like this?
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>>1415 1. Leave inch 2. Go to your hometown village or whatever and meet people make it a habit to strike a convo whenever you can 3. Do this everywhere it'll help
>>1375 socialise, see a therapist if possible. we always blame ourselves for our executive dsyfunctions but there might be some underlying issues. be kind to yourself thats all I would say.
How to get over crippling social anxiety man? Even going to the store is a battle for me.
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>>1611 Cognitive behavioral therapy yaar, the most common therapy for anxiety disorders. You can find various self help books. >And I can't even tell anyone about this forget about getting professional help. Fuck the stigma yaar! I'm assuming you're undiagnosed; which doesn't help much when you use a mental illness to describe yourself, it affects negatively to many diagnosed people. It could be something else or a symptom of some other condition, so seek professional help if you're serious about it. >>1613 >What is anxiety disorder? Spoonfed me plz Psychedelics help with many mental illness and are being studied with positive results, but in india it doesn't matter. Cannabis products also require prescription on many webistes, unless it's just some rose and vanilla extract shit with tulsi and what not and low THC. Also, anxiety and anxiety disorder are different. >>1614 Bhangi gyan mat chod tereko pata nhi hai toh.
>>1608 Yaar my kalej, which is far way from my home state, is reopening from january and I already am shit scared. On the top of that I'll have to live in a shared room for one year >Even going to the store is a battle for me I can go to the small stores I'm familiar with, on my own but not to others
Madarchod stop thinking lodu
i saw one wasp in my room today, killed it because it was me or it. then i saw another wasp which entered the room, maybe it was looking for the dead one. then i went out of the room and found their nest. i feel so bad now, even though i am an asshole all the other times. what do?
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>>1579 Then call someone else to kick off the wasps from your property. I get the 'feeling bad' thing but what needs to be done, needs to be done, no two ways about it.
>>1579 honeybees are good. wasps are bad. dont feel guilty for killing wasp. it was defence mechanism
>>1575 What if the wasp you killed was a traitor or a murderer or did a robbery and the wasp that came after was catching it? You did a good thing anon. You helped.
>be me >go to global right wing image boards/forums >everyone hated indians >go to global left wing image boards/forums >same result.jpg >go to indian right wing image boards/forums >everyone hates jats >go to indian left wing image boards/forums >same result again >go to jat forums >everyone is a circlejerking retards who believes they are somehow greek tfw I can't stand the internet
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Anons, which songs remind you of your childhood? one of mine is Ram di Dam
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how many users on this board?
I talked to my brother as to why he is avoiding coming back home, after some prodding he said it was because of the constant tension in my household He has abandoned ship I so, so wish that I could do the same thing, but I just love my parents so much and if I left my mother would most likely not survive Why does it have to be like this No other friend of mine has to endure their mother's constant psychotic and depressive attacks They seem so happy, not a care in the world
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>>1493 >I'm quite sure that if you tell your problems to your gf, she's going to go 'uh oh sweaty big yikes you're a big red flag sorry I'm not your psychiatrist bye' and break up. Real world isn't like incel imageboards tell you, most girls would be happy to listen to you and support you, even if she breaks up that's good because why be in a relationship if your partner can't even emotionally support you. >In a sense, she would be in the right. A man should be the one to provide support, not take it. Seriously though get your head out of Bengali fish frying forum, there is nothing wrong in taking support of your partner.
>>1567 Constant fights and psychotic attacks, seeing his mother nearly kill herself, yeah perhaps. he's also not besharam like I am, apparently one time he was left with the task of watching an infant me for a while and making sure I don't fall off the diwan which I did (explains why I'm on this website). Mother saw and scolded him just a bit and the guy fainted. Actually locked up his fists and fainted. And he was suicidal for some time in his life too. Being mentally strong is highly underrated.
>>1493 > I'm quite sure that if you tell your problems to your gf, she's going to go 'uh oh sweaty big yikes you're a big red flag sorry I'm not your psychiatrist bye' and break up that's kinda true. I've never been in a relationship but had chances and i blew them just because of this. they just don't like when others bitch/ open about their issues
>>1568 Just remember this fact that someday you will have kids and you'll also go through the same phase that your parents went through when they had you. Parenting is not an easy task and not everyone has their grandmother and father around to teach them how to do it. Just keep in mind the things that your parents did that negatively affected you and your brother and abstain from repeating the same mistakes when you have kids someday.
I am a kallej student My only goal is to study I dont care muh social life, must enjoy blah blah young life shit Stay fit, stay healthy Will study hard Deleted all social media
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